At this time especially, I appreciate your reiterating that we don’t need the other person to accomplish the forgiveness work. I use to have a very hard time being on my own without having a partner in my life, even if that meant putting up with much abuse, (peace at any price). A firm choice must happen here. Last week Wednesday I was fairly happy on my own. Maybe my sag venus, gemini moon and scorpio sun, cap Jupiter and Saturn.
It was so foreign to me. Seems I was struggling to let it die. We do not know how to say with kindness: this is over. I release the fear and open to love and kindness and understanding and my drama. 2020-05-19T01:40:43Z Comment by #DJ_DXSOLO! Endings and peace.
© 2020 Debra Silverman Astrology. Civil ceremony style. This letter was (and your previous ones) so insightful and practical for me to do the work (inside job). also what do you mean no prizes?!?1. You make sense of the planets for me in a way no one else has. In our 30+ year relationship, we butted heads more times than I can count.
Find out about all Grass is Greener events, including its festival on the Gold Coast, here. On my way forgiving myself. I was able to grow and learn that I had the strength and ability to survive, without someone to lean on. This is the part in all of us that needs to be transparent and to talk, with the support of someone asking you the hard questions: Am I honest? I have Lots of earth, some fire, one water and no air. And here we have the full moon’s conversation, leading to this god-awful question: How do I take full responsibility for my life? (Libra) If not, how do I tell the truth to myself? I adore who you are AND…kindness.’ No need to assassinate, judge, or diminish that person—just a clear ending. This is a 360 degree shift from where I was a year ago. The fucked up part was I couldn’t believe someone wanted me. Thank you.
Thank you for all you are Debra, I’ve been following you since your days on the AM radio station here in Seattle. Thanks debra! As soon as I acknowledged his transition, alarms started blaring and medical personnel began filling the room. But 2020 rang it’s quarantine bell and everything shut down in a huge universal Time Out.
It has opened my eyes. I am soooo Libra! I’m finding my peace & enjoying it. So now I pray to the highest for the highest, and with humor because I’ve made huge strides little by little, most recently turning some corners.
But the last one which wasn’t a real relationship and went on on and off forever one day I just didn’t care anymore. But the fist one the worst one on my heart when I was 20 has never fully disappeared and now I found out a week ago his wife died. Much love Deborah! I believe it comes from a deep grounding within you, and your passion for your life’s work. I am open to endings because I know a new beginning is on its way. #offkilter (Libra). Your writings have helped guide me, and often conincide with dynamics I was aware of so it helps me confidently listen to my intuition.
2:56 PREVIEW Bad to the Bone (feat. I’m having trouble putting into words lately what is happening on the psychedelic internal ephemeral experience. For nearly 3 years I guarded his finances, his health care, his personal needs. This is the hardest and most important thing to do when something is over. I’d love to hear more about the “other than that” part of this conversation! Not forgetting but learning and moving forward. It was a surprise to the whole family (especially me) when I became his caregiver. One of my favorite parts of this lifestyle is my own community. I am so curious. “Peace to you. I I’m so afraid of making the wrong decision either way. The Lox) 1. He just had a birthday and is a Libra.
The Grass Is Greener - Extended Mix is a popular song by Michelle C | Create your own TikTok videos with the The Grass Is Greener - Extended Mix song and explore 0 videos made by new and popular creators. I look forward to learning what a Saturn Return is all about. Ok it’s true it’s because I picked horrible men with big lessons I didn’t always learn the first time.
Sending love to your heart.
I thought I might live there one day and you have. , Eloquent and timely as my ex just passed away. This wasn’t about feelings of romantic love and emotional attachments to my spouse. Tell me about your relationship with endings and peace? Sincerely yours
Once with a small baby and no child support, the second marriage ended in the middle of house building in a foreign country when I was left in a not completed house in the country with no car, very little income and a broken heart. You are a powerful healer.
Then that’s me. Beauty is yours. I have struggled for many years with hanging in decision limbo. This article needs an improved plot summary. So, once again, your article is wonderful. I have had some major start overs in my life and feel like I am in the midst of creating another one soon. Right now my goal is to allow myself to be more open to feeling, loving, and being in the moment and letting go of the future and the knowing that whatever I am currently enjoying comes to an end. I noticed that as his disease progressed he became far more accepting of me, and by the end, he was calling me, “Honey” and “Sweetheart”. You must be at least 18 to attend The Grass is Greener – Gold Coast. Oh this resonated so deeply with me. Love to you. Liberating and adult. Welcome to a Libra fantasy.
Years of working on myself has finally gotten me to a point where I am actually friends with both ex’s. Letting go of fear of losing.
Hold your truth. Lol. He is still not over it so perhaps not a good time for our energies to meet again… What are your thoughts?? It drives me crazy!!! I am sorry about your ending. Good for you! He would rephrase my words and always say it’s me that is making him angry or upset or unhappy. And I’ve learned to give myself more time in transitions if I can. =).
You can write them, go over to their home and have a peaceful (Libra) conversation to restate the new year with a fresh start. 2020-05-18T17:11:54Z. Who was a scammer, a liar, a cheat, controlling, energy vampire, and emotional manipulation. Hmm.
My feeling was let me help! 2020-05-23T14:53:50Z Comment by D.P.O. Dearest Debra
All these years of taking care of everyone I want to take care of myself. I have always found it amazing that while once you were standing in front of your loved ones saying ‘I DO’, all dressed up in that flowy white dress, proclaiming your devotion to love…and then years later, you find yourself driving to the lawyer’s office to tell them how awful that person is and that you are done (Aries). It’s not true: the grass is not greener. Your gifts are about to be exposed to you. I’m feeling this full moon release and new moon shift. It’s very difficult because there is deep love here and something I can’t explain that has always been there. Within a day of returning home I set a date with the attorney to meet, feeling clear I was ready to file divorce papers.
That they didn’t want to delegate tasks to others because they wanted to be involved in everything. I offered him to leave and if he wanted to try and continue what we have but he called the cops and tried to make me look crazy. The Covid 19 lockdown here in Melbourne Australia has given me time to review all of this. I love the fact that the Jewish new Year is in Libra, which I hadn’t thought about, it is a good time for assessing the way we approach things. That explains a lot already and the ex is a Pisces. I guess I just need to offer miore compassion, acceptance and understanding. Hi Debra — So love your take on everything astrological. I am a Gemini w Ascendant in Libra and Moon in Aquarius. Loved this! I love your message. You have the words, now you need the discernment and centering.
Broadwater Parklands, Gold Coast, QLD 4215, Australia. (Now, let’s move on to the celebration! Åsa here from Sweden! To tie this into your newsletter, I too had a relationship end this year.
I’m still figuring it out. If our only issue is physical intimacy, kissing, vulnerability… Then I wonder if I’m doing the wrong thing by severing this. No blame, no guilt, just ‘oh look, we are over’.
{I cry a lot} Although I haven’t looked at his chart, I suspect that as his ego gradually disappeared into the fog of dementia, some of his softer traits were allowed to move to the forefront and he was able to feel true gratitude for the benevolence bestowed upon him by the Universe. Chris Rice.
I’ve always found it hard to say No, even to my own detriment.
The Grass Is Greener is a 1960 comedy film directed by Stanley Donen and starring Cary Grant, Deborah Kerr, Robert Mitchum, and Jean Simmons. I always find insights in your readings, thanks Debra. I’m a Libra sun and Aries rising.
However, when that relationship is abusive , the grass is greener on the other side, or can be.
I’ve been freaking out about making the commitment, not because I don’t love him, it’s just been my process, with so many things, afraid to fully commit, all the way. Synchronicity. Thank you for bringing clarity with your words during this full moon energy. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Kerry, Good morning Debra! I was tempted to say that it’s a good thing you don’t live in an Italian household where the way they communicate is by yelling back and forth . So I’m a sun Aries libra moon. I have been there with my ex husband had to sit with him and have a heart to heart no easy but glad I did it. Our adult children are still in delusional denial…. ❤. I’m now preparing to cut back hours I’m involved with in a family business because it’s mentally depleted me and I can’t efficiently run my own company. I got him set up in assisted living (he was previously homeless) and I advocated for him on every level. Thank you. I have found it is not always too late to mend a relationship. I sent a condolence card. He’s not into the woo-woo like I am, but he’s accepting. We play a lot.
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